How we make our marriage work
We get a lot of messages where people need advice and we do out best to answer them. We decided it was time to make a video talking about how we make our marriage work and what things we do to make a...
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Same Age
If you are completely unfamiliar with Korean culture and respectful terms, this comic might be a little bit difficult to understand. The longer we’ve been back in Korean culture, the more Hugh likes...
View ArticleIntercultural Confessions Challenge
We thought up this challenge because after being married for several years I think we are comfortable confessing to some secrets or how we feel about some things in each other’s cultures. And I guess...
View ArticleDiscussing Foreign Wives in Korea
In this video we talk about these types of messages that we get where women are asking us to help them find a Korean husband. People sometimes assume that it must be Kpop fangirls, but there is...
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Getting Old
People already love to judge the looks of interracial couples more than other couples and there can be extra scrutiny as we age. Caucasians in general seem to show the signs of aging earlier. There...
View ArticleWeird stuff people say to us
We try to focus on positive stuff but after being online for several years we thought we’d talk about some of the weird or mean comments we sometimes get, as well as what some people say in real life....
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Crowd
“Oppa” is the Korean term that I often use for Hugh as he is an older male. It can also be used in the context of our relationship as a pet name. Unfortunately in a crowd there are many “oppas” so...
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Morning News
We go through phases where sometimes I get up earlier and then other times he is getting up earlier every day. Whoever gets up first has usually checked the news first. The news has been horrifying...
View ArticleTalking about Breakups
This video is in a kind of podcast style where we talk about a topic and our experiences. In this episode we talk about heatbreak and hopefully have some advice for our younger viewers.
View ArticleIntrovert VS Extrovert in Marriage
We chat about what it’s like being an introvert and an extrovert in marriage. (This video was filmed a few weeks ago, you may notice Hugh is not as slim here as he is in recent videos).
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Rubbish
That sounds a lot worse in Korean… I’ve often heard Koreans use that when they describe someone really bad but “rubbish” in English doesn’t sound as extreme as that. This is why you can’t always...
View ArticleMaintaining Relationships with Family and Friends
Maintaining Relationships with Family and Friends When Living in Another Country. This is one of the hardest things about living in another country, especially for international couples. Someone will...
View ArticleHow to be annoying (Cold Feet and ‘being’ North Korea).
How to be annoying in your marriage. Cold Feet! We revisit quite an old comic from the blog! Are you the North Korea in your relationship? Do you deliberately provoke? Are you a totalitarian...
View ArticleLet’s talk about Marriage
The hardest year of our marriage? I’ve been wanting to do this video for a few months and finally we had the time to film it. Often online, couples present this really perfect image of their...
View ArticleRelationship Reality: our dumbest worst argument
I remembered this argument recently… It was early in our relationship while we were still in Sydney and we were heading to a friend’s wedding. The problem was it was a Korean and an Australian...
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